Committed relationships are a playground to explore the depths of intimacy, love and passion. Each challenge, argument, difference gives you an opportunity to open to a deeper level. A challenge yes a defeat NO. It is easy to blame our partners when the going gets tough – can you accept the imperfection in your partner, have you started to judge and criticize, this is the quickest way for your partner to shut down and withdraw, then what happens to.
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Fear and Need of the Feminine
Many of my clients, have a fear of the feminine or mother. They do not trust and quite often live with a lot of anxiety and fear of life, feeling trapped on earth and more connected to the spirit world from whence they came. Living in daydreams, not quite focused in the present moment.
During a point of time in utero, this person may have felt like a hated or unwanted child, even before birth. This particular structure is called a Schizoid,.
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Pleasure Anxiety
People who are brought up with a negative attitude towards life and sex usually acquire a pleasure anxiety; the fear of pleasure is the fear of pain not only in the physical pain but psychological pain of loss, frustration and humiliation.
In the course of growing up we overcome these pains by suppressing our sadness, our fear and our anger. In the process we diminish our capacity for love, joy and PLEASURE. Feelings are suppressed by.
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